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BECOMING HER “I used to think wealth was about money alone. But I learned it’s about how you think under pressure… How you speak when you’re unsure… How you move when nobody is watching. I created this page for women ready to embody wealth before it shows up physically. Welcome to becoming her.”Nobody tells you this… Wealth responds to mindset, discipline, and self-respect. Not luck. Not noise. Not rushing. BECOME HER is your guide to embodying wealth daily calmly, intentionally, powerfully. 🖇️ https://selar.com/473001z23y

TOXOPLASMA GONDI:  Toxoplasma gondii is one of the most misunderstood parasites in the world. It is often surrounded by fear, myths, and internet exaggerations especially when cats are involved. Some people panic. Others dismiss it entirely. Both reactions are dangerous. This blog exists to present complete, accurate, and evidence-based information because awareness saves lives, while misinformation causes harm. What Is Toxoplasma gondii? Toxoplasma gondii is a microscopic protozoan parasite that causes an infection called toxoplasmosis. It can infect most warm-blooded animals, including humans, birds, livestock, and rodents. Once inside the body, the parasite can form dormant cysts in muscles, the brain, eyes, and other tissues. In healthy individuals, these cysts are usually kept under control by the immune system. Why Cats Are the Main Carrier (Definitive Host) This is a biological fact: Cats are the only known definitive host of Toxoplasma gondii. That means: The pa...

20 WAYS TO RAISE YOUR VIBRATION (THE REAL WORK NO ONE TALKS ABOUT) Raising your vibration is not about escaping pain, pretending to be positive, or chasing a spiritual aesthetic. It’s about how you live, choose, and treat yourself when no one is watching. A high vibration life is built quietly through discipline, awareness, and honesty. Meditation teaches you to sit with discomfort instead of running from it. Breathwork reminds your body that you are safe enough to slow down. Prayer humbles the ego and reconnects you to something greater than fear. Energy healing, sound healing, and inner-child work are not trends. They are tools for releasing what your body has been carrying for years—unspoken grief, suppressed anger, unresolved shame. Your body matters. Hydration, nourishment, movement, rest these are not basic habits; they are energetic decisions. You cannot neglect your physical self and expect emotional clarity. Avoiding alcohol, smoking, and toxic people isn’t about b...

MASTER YOUR LIFE: WHY MOST PEOPLE STAY STUCK (AND HOW TO BREAK FREE) Let’s be honest. Almost everyone wants success ,  a better life. More money. Peace of mind. Freedom. Fulfillment. But wanting is cheap, desire alone has never changed anyone’s life. What most people don’t have and rarely talk about is a system. Not motivation. Not vibes. Not another quote saved on Instagram. A system. And that’s why so many people stay stuck, repeating the same year over and over, just with different excuses. Success Is Boring Before It’s Beautiful The truth no one likes to admit: success is built in small, quiet, unsexy actions done consistently. This system isn’t flashy. It doesn’t promise overnight miracles. It asks you to show up daily, intentionally, honestly. And that’s exactly why it works. 1. Question Yourself (Brutally) Most people don’t know what they want. They only know what they don’t want and even that, vaguely. Ask yourself: What do I truly want? What would this look lik...

WHEN TEXT MESSAGES BECOME WEAPONS: THE TRUTH ABOUT NARCISSISTIC TEXTING TACTICS. There is a kind of pain that doesn’t leave bruises. It leaves confusion. Anxiety. Self-doubt. Silence where your voice used to be. This is about that pain. This is about the messages that arrive on your phone and slowly dismantle your peace not because you’re weak, but because someone learned how to manipulate emotions through words. Narcissistic texting is not random. It is calculated. It is strategic. And once you see it clearly, you can no longer unsee it. Texting Was Never Meant to Be a Battlefield Texting is supposed to connect us. Instead, with a narcissist, it becomes a control room. They don’t text to communicate they text to dominate. They don’t message to resolve they message to provoke. They don’t explain they confuse. And the most dangerous part? They make you feel like the problem. Let’s tell the truth plainly, honestly, without sugarcoating. 1. The Anger Burst: Emotional Ambush On...

A CHILD'S FIRST BULLY IS AN UNHEALED PARENT  There is a particular kind of pain that does not come from strangers, teachers, classmates, or the outside world. It begins at home. Quietly. Repeatedly. Often invisibly. When we say “a child’s first bully is an unhealed parent,” we are not attacking parenthood. We are naming a truth that many carry in silence: unresolved trauma, when left untreated, does not disappear it leaks. And children are often the first place it spills. The Wound That Walks Into the Room An unhealed parent may not see themselves as cruel. In fact, many are convinced they are doing their best. But pain that is ignored becomes sharp. Hurt that is denied becomes control. Trauma that is buried resurfaces as anger, fear, manipulation, emotional withdrawal, or excessive criticism. This kind of bullying rarely looks like playground taunts. It looks like: Constant invalidation of a child’s feelings Love that is conditional on obedience or performance Explosiv...