💃 THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS — WHO THEY ARE & WHAT THEY SEEK

“A woman’s heart is a garden what she plants, waters, or withholds reveals her deepest truths.”

1. THE NURTURER (THE HEALER)

She gives, cares, forgives, and pours from an endless well of compassion even when she’s empty. She’s the peace in a storm.

💖 What she wants: Love, protection, appreciation, emotional safety.

⚠️ Danger : May lose herself trying to save others.

💡 Advice : Nurture yourself too, Queen. You are not a rehab center for broken men.

2. THE INDEPENDENT ALPHA 

Ambitious, assertive, emotionally intelligent, and often misunderstood as “too much.” She leads her own life confidently.

💖 What she wants: A man who is secure in himself, not intimidated by her light.

⚠️ Danger : May struggle to soften or let others help.

💡 Advice  : Strength is beautiful, but so is surrender when it's safe to.

3. THE BROKEN BEAUTY 

She carries deep emotional wounds abandonment, betrayal, trauma. She may love hard but trust little.

💔 What she wants: Reassurance, safety, stability.

⚠️ Danger : She may self-sabotage or overreact to fear of being hurt again.

💡 Advice : Healing is not weakness. You deserve a love that feels like recovery, not repetition.

4. THE MANIPULATIVE WOMAN (QUEEN OF CONTROL)

She uses emotions, guilt, tears, or seduction to control the relationship. Her power comes from playing victim or puppet master.

💔 What she wants: Control, validation, dominance.

⚠️ Danger : Love becomes a power game.

💡 Advice : True power is in mutual respect, not manipulation.

5. THE GOSSIPING WOMAN 

She always knows the tea and thrives on others' business. Her mouth is a firestarter.

💔 What she wants: Attention, significance, social power.

⚠️ Danger : A woman who exposes others can’t protect your secrets either.

💡 Advice : Gossip is noise wisdom is quiet.

6. THE MATERIALISTIC WOMAN 

She’s all about the bags, brands, luxury, and aesthetics. She measures love in gifts, lifestyle, and money.

💔 What she wants: Comfort, admiration, and social status.

⚠️ Danger:  May ignore character for coin.

💡 Advice : There’s nothing wrong with desiring abundance but love should never be bought.

7. THE DRAMA QUEEN 

She lives for chaos. Her emotions are loud, intense, and constant. Small issues become emotional earthquakes.

💔 What she wants: Attention, emotional stimulation, constant validation.

⚠️ Danger : Peace may feel boring to her.

💡 Advice : Not everything requires fire. Calm is a blessing too.

8. THE WISE WOMAN 

She listens deeply, speaks with intention, and lives with awareness. She’s spiritual, discerning, and walks in truth.

💖 What she wants: Soulful connection, depth, peace, and alignment.

🌟 Strength : She elevates everything she touches.

💡 Advice : Protect your energy. Your light is sacred.

9. THE INSECURE WOMAN 

She questions her worth, compares herself to others, and fears abandonment. Her love may feel like walking on emotional glass.

💔 What she wants: Constant reassurance, loyalty, and emotional proof of love.

⚠️ Danger:  May drain a relationship through fear-driven behavior.

💡 Advice : Love yourself first. Healing is your responsibility.

10. THE CLINGY WOMAN 

She craves closeness 24/7. Her identity is wrapped in the relationship. Without him, she feels lost.

💔 What she wants: Deep connection, constant presence, emotional closeness.

⚠️ Danger : May suffocate her partner or lose independence.

💡 Advice : You are complete even before love arrives.

11. THE GOLD DIGGER 

Her love language is your wallet. She’s in the relationship for benefits, not bonding.

💔 What she wants: Lifestyle, luxury, and leverage.

⚠️ Danger : She may disappear when money does.

💡 Advice : Don't confuse provision with purpose.

12. THE PEACEKEEPER 

She avoids conflict at all costs. She suffers in silence, buries her needs, and pleases to maintain “peace.”

💔 What she wants : Harmony, security, non-confrontational love.

⚠️ Danger : Suppressed emotions lead to silent suffering.

💡 Advice : Speak your truth even softly. Your voice matters.

13. THE FEMININE MUSE 

Soft, graceful, romantic, emotional. She flourishes in love, beauty, and being cherished.

💖 What she wants : Devotion, emotional intimacy, and to be seen.

🌟 Strength : She makes her partner feel inspired, valued, and nurtured.

💡 Advice : Never beg to be adored you already are enough.

14. THE MASCULINE WOMAN 

She’s a protector, provider, and planner. Usually raised to be strong out of survival. She often forgets how to receive.

💔 What she wants : Safety, someone she doesn’t have to lead.

⚠️ Danger : May attract passive men and feel emotionally exhausted.

💡 Advice:  It’s safe to soften in the arms of the right man.

15. THE SELFISH WOMAN 

She puts herself first always. Her needs, time, dreams, and emotions matter most.

💔 What she wants : Attention and constant convenience.

⚠️ Danger : She may love herself more than the relationship.

💡 Advice : Self-love is beautiful but love is also about giving.

16. The Jealous Woman

She’s suspicious of your female friends, your phone, and even your success. Her love is laced with fear.

💔 What she wants : Security but she chases it through control.

⚠️ Danger : Can become toxic, obsessive, or controlling.

💡 Advice : Trust must be built inward before it can be given outward.

17. THE LOYAL RIDE-OR-DIE 

She holds you down through storms, struggle, success, and setbacks. Her love is fierce, patient, and faithful.

💖 What she wants: Loyalty, emotional partnership, and gratitude.

🌟 Strength :  A true warrior of love but don’t take her for granted.

💡 Advice : She’s rare. Don’t lose her trying to test her.

18. THE BUILDER 

She helps you strategize, build your brand, heal your trauma, and organize your dreams. She's loyal, visionary, and hardworking.

💖 What she wants: Partnership with purpose. A man who values her mind, not just her presence.

🌟 Strength : She's the woman behind the man's success if he allows her.

💡 Advice : Don’t use a builder and abandon her after the foundation is set.

19. THE PRETENDER (MISS PERFECT ONLINE)

She looks flawless on Instagram, says the right things, but behind the filters is insecurity, fear, or manipulation.

💔 What she wants: Validation, image worship, and envy-driven love.

⚠️ Danger : You may fall in love with a character, not a person.

💡 Advice : Who is she when the camera is off? That's her truth.

20. THE ADDICTED TO-LOVE WOMAN 

She jumps from relationship to relationship, terrified of being alone. Her worth is tied to having a partner.

💔 What she wants: To feel wanted. Constant emotional companionship.

⚠️ Danger  : She doesn’t love you she fears loneliness.

💡 Advice  : You are already whole. A partner is an addition, not a definition.

21. THE CAREER-FIRST WOMAN 

Her goals come before everything. She's focused, driven, and purpose-fueled but may unintentionally shut love out.

💖 What she wants: Someone who respects her time and understands her mission.

⚠️ Danger  : Emotional walls and workaholism.

💡 Advice : Balance brings peace. You don’t have to choose between ambition and affection.

22. THE REFORMED PLAYER 

She used to play games, break hearts, and use men but she’s grown, healed, and seeks real love now.

💖 What she wants: Redemption, understanding, real intimacy.

🌟 Strength. : Self-awareness and growth.

💡 Advice  : Don’t judge a woman by her past if she’s doing the work in the present.

23. THE HYPER SENSITIVE WOMAN 

She’s been taught or conditioned to obey, suppress, and never question. She’s afraid to speak her needs.

💔 What she wants  : Approval, protection, and peace.

⚠️ Danger  : May lose herself in the relationship.

💡 Advice  : Submission is only sacred when it’s a choice not a survival mechanism.

24. THE ALPHA-IN-DISGUISE 

She acts soft, agreeable, and easygoing but beneath the surface is a mastermind running the relationship without seeming controlling.

💖 What she wants: Power, but without making it obvious.

⚠️ Danger  : Can become manipulative if unchecked.

💡 Advice  : True power doesn't need to be hidden or abused it thrives in transparency.

25. THE HOT-AND-COLD WOMAN 

She draws you in, then disappears. Her feelings fluctuate rapidly. She’s emotionally unpredictable and often unsure of what she truly wants.

💔 What she wants: Connection but on her terms.

⚠️ Danger : May leave you emotionally confused or heart-tired.

💡 Advice  : Love needs consistency to grow, not mood swings.

26. THE SECRETLY JEALOUS WOMAN 

She supports you in public but resents you in private. She silently compares, competes, and critiques.

💔 What she wants: To outshine, not align.

⚠️ Danger  : May sabotage your growth or isolate you from your purpose.

💡 Advice  : A partner should clap loudly for you

not secretly count your wins.

27. THE RIDEE-ON YOUR-BACK WOMAN 

She expects everything to be handed to her your money, energy, resources but offers little or no emotional or spiritual support in return.

💔 What she wants  : A provider, not a partner.

⚠️ Danger  : Drains your life without contributing.

💡 Advice  : Partnership means contribution, not consumption.

28. THE EMOTIONALLY SILENT ONE 

She doesn’t talk about how she feels. She bottles things up, hoping you'll “just know.” She may seem cold but is usually just protecting herself.

💔 What she wants  : To feel safe enough to open up.

⚠️ Danger  : Communication breakdowns and assumptions.

💡 Advice  : She blooms with consistency and emotional presence.

29. THE FOREVER VICTIM 

She never takes accountability. Everything is always someone else’s fault. Her wounds become weapons.

💔 What she wants: Sympathy more than solutions.

⚠️ Danger  : May gaslight and manipulate through guilt.

💡 Advice  : Growth requires self-reflection not blame-shifting.

30. THE BALANCED QUEEN 

She’s soft yet firm, loving but wise, successful yet nurturing. She respects herself and demands the same. She's healed, whole, and walking in divine feminine energy.

💖 What she wants  : Peace, alignment, sacred partnership.

🌟 Strength  : Elevates you without shrinking herself.

💡 Advice : Honor her. She’s everything the right man dreams of.

🌹Final Words :

Every woman is a universe some are healing, some are hiding, some are whole, and some are hungry for what they’ve never been taught. The most powerful thing a woman can do is know herself, grow herself, and never shrink herself for love.

 The best version of you is the one who’s healed, self-aware, unapologetic, and rooted in truth.

With timeless love,

Kassy Gold

“Life is a mystery. Life is a journey. Life is a marketplace. Life is a teacher.”

“In every woman, there’s a world worth exploring.”