THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN IN A RELATIONSHIPS: WHO THEY ARE AND WHAT THEY TRULY WANT

Love is an amazing experience when shared with the right person. One of the most important elements in a relationship is understanding the emotional and psychological patterns of your partner. Men, like women, come with layers shaped by upbringing, trauma, culture, ego, love, fear, and their past experiences.

There are varieties types of men you may meet in a relationship some who will uplift and heal you, and others who will drain and destroy you Choose wisely.

1. THE CONTROLLING BULLY 

He dominates through fear, intimidation, or manipulation. He wants power, control, and total submission. He often masks his insecurity by belittling you or making you feel worthless.

💔 What he wants: Obedience, validation, and someone he can control.

⚠️ Danger :  Emotional, verbal, and even physical abuse.

💡 Advice. : No one deserves to be controlled. Love shouldn't be a battlefield.

2. THE INSECURE MAN 

He constantly needs reassurance. He might stalk your social media, question your friends, or feel threatened by your confidence. His own self-worth is fragile.

💔 What he wants. : Constant emotional validation and protection from rejection.

⚠️ Danger  :   He may guilt-trip you or make you feel guilty for growing.

💡 Advice : Insecurity in a partner can only be healed if he actively works on himself.

3. THE NARCISSIST 

He is the center of his world and expects to be the center of yours too. He thrives on admiration but rarely gives love back. He uses charm to reel you in but eventually chips away at your self-esteem.

💔 What he wants: Admiration, control, and emotional supply.

⚠️ Danger : Gaslighting, emotional manipulation, and extreme selfishness.

💡 Advice:  Don’t fall for potential watch for patterns. Narcissists rarely change without deep inner work.

4. THE MAMA’S  BOY 

He’s overly attached to his mother. Her opinions shape his worldview. In extreme cases, her voice overrides yours in your relationship.

💔 What he wants : A partner who mirrors his mother or competes with her.

⚠️ Danger  : Emotional immaturity and lack of independence.

💡 Advice  : If you're dating him, you may be in a relationship with his mother too.

5. THE REAL MAN 

Emotionally intelligent, secure, respectful, ambitious, vulnerable, and loving. He values communication and growth.

💖 What he wants: A partner, not a project. Mutual respect, peace, purpose, and shared dreams.

🌟 Strength  : Builds, protects, leads with empathy and strength.

💡 Advice  : Real men still exist watch how he treats others, especially in your absence.

6. THE JEALOUS POSSESSIVE MAN 

He sees love through the lens of ownership. He may isolate you from friends, demand your passwords, or suspect betrayal even when it doesn’t exist.

💔 What he wants: Total attention and submission out of fear, not love.

⚠️ Danger  : He may confuse control with love.

💡 Advice  :  Healthy love is rooted in trust, not surveillance.