WOULD YOU MARRY SOMEONE JUST LIKE YOU?A Mirror to Your Heart, A Message to Your Future

WOULD YOU MARRY SOMEONE JUST LIKE YOU?

A Mirror to Your Heart, A Message to Your Future

By Uloma Kassy Gold

http://ilovekassygold.blogspot.com

“You don’t attract what you deserve. You attract who you are.”

Let’s be honest brutally honest.

Not the filtered, soft-spoken version of truth that lets you sleep peacefully at night.

I’m talking about the raw, mirror-up-to-your-soul kind of truth.

Here’s a question you may have never dared to ask yourself:

👉🏾 Would you marry someone just like you?

Not the version of you people see. Not the dressed-up-in-church version. Not the smiling-at-work version.

I mean the real, behind-closed-doors, when-no-one-is-watching version.

Would you be happy if someone treated you the way you treat others?

Would you allow your son or daughter to date someone who behaves like you do when you’re hurt, angry, bored, or in love?

Because life is a mirror. And love is a return investment.

 THE LAW OF REFLECTION: LIFE GIVES BACK WHAT YOU GIVE OUT

Think about it:

You can’t treat someone’s son like a pastime and pray your daughter finds true love.

You can’t drain someone’s daughter emotionally and ask God for a wife who brings you peace.

Every disrespect, every lie, every breadcrumb of love you throw at someone…

Will echo.

Will return.

Will eventually knock on your door  with interest.

You can’t plant poison and expect mangoes.

You can’t break people and expect wholeness in return.

Every heart is sacred. Every human is a soul.

They bleed when cut  just like you do.

 MEN: YOU TREAT WOMEN THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE TREATED

If you raise your voice to silence her, if you manipulate her love, if you cheat and call it “just being a man”…

Imagine your daughter’s future.

Would you bless her union with someone like you?

Would you clap proudly when she brings home a man who mirrors your habits?

You are writing the script for her heartbreak… or her healing.

Choose wisely.

 WOMEN: YOU TREAT MEN THE WAY YOU WANT YOUR SON TO BE LOVED

If you use men for your gain, lie to them, hurt them with indifference or pride  ask yourself this:

Would you want your son to fall for a woman who plays him the way you play others?

Would your son survive a woman like you?

If not, it’s time to shift.

Because your behavior is not just about you.

It’s a message to generations unborn.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT TOYS THEY ARE TESTIMONIES

You can’t keep cutting down people like trees and complain when there’s no shade left in your life.

Every tree you cut bleeds.

And every soul you damage becomes someone else’s emotional assignment.

We’re all healing from something.

Don’t become the reason someone needs therapy.

Don’t become the warning sign in someone else’s love story.

LOVE IS A SACRED SEED SOW IT WISELY

If you want loyalty, give it.

If you want honesty, live it.

If you want respect, offer it.

If you want peace, don’t be the storm in someone else’s sky.

No one is perfect. But integrity is a choice.

You can’t be careless with people’s emotions and expect the universe to deliver you joy.

Your habits are planting your future.

 LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO BECOME LOVEABLE

Let’s talk about real self-love.

Not the trend. Not the glamorized Instagram version.

Real self-love is doing the inner work:

Healing from past wounds

Confronting your own flaws

Apologizing when wrong

Setting boundaries, not walls

Giving love without keeping score

When you love yourself deeply, you stop projecting your damage onto others.

You begin to attract peace, because you are peace.

You become a garden  not a war zone.

LEGACY LOVE: BUILD A FUTURE THAT YOUR CHILDREN WILL THANK YOU FOR

You are not just dating for today.

You are showing your bloodline what love looks like.

You are training your children in the language of relationships  by example, not just advice.

Let the story your life tells be this:

“I was broken, but I healed.

I was bitter, but I chose better.

I was lost, but I grew up.

I was selfish, but I learned to love.”

Because real love is not about perfection.

It’s about transformation.

 FINAL REFLECTION: WHO ARE YOU, REALLY?

Close your eyes.

Breathe.

Now ask yourself again:

Would I be happy with someone who acts, thinks, loves, and treats people the way I do?

If your answer is no  don’t panic.

Just start the work today.

Because in the end, life is watching.

The universe is responding.

And love… is only ever as real as you are.

✍🏾 With Love,

Uloma Kassy Gold💛

"Life is a mystery. Life is a journey. Life is a marketplace. Life is a teacher."

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