WHAT ARE YOU FEEDING YOUR MIND ABOUT US?

 

WHAT ARE YOU FEEDING YOUR MIND ABOUT US?

The mind is like a seed.

Whatever you plant in it will grows, weeds or flowers, chaos or calm, love or resentment.

And the harvest you reap will reflect everything you’ve been feeding it, whether you realize it or not.

We talk so much about love about finding it, keeping it, fixing it  but we rarely stop to think about what’s shaping our love stories from the inside out: our minds.

None of us are born broken or bad.

We are reflections of what we’ve been taught, of what we’ve seen, and of what we’ve survived.

Our environment, our families, our friends, even the media we consume  they all play a part in building or breaking the way we see relationships.

Some of us grew up watching arguments and calling it passion.

Some of us saw silence and thought it meant peace.

Some of us learned that love was supposed to hurt before it healed.

And now, as adults, we carry those lessons  consciously or not  into every relationship we enter.

Then we wonder why love feels like war sometimes.

Why every conversation feels like a battle to prove who’s right instead of a moment to understand each other.

Why we get defensive, shut down, or push away the very person we want to hold close.

The truth?

We’re not really fighting each other.

We’re fighting what the world has programmed into us.

We’re fighting old wounds, the voices that told us love was a game, the people who made us believe vulnerability is weakness. We’re fighting the fear of being hurt again. The ego that whispers, “Don’t let them win.”

But in love, there are no winners. There are only learners.

We keep missing the point  that nobody is perfect, and nobody is easy to love.

Love is not supposed to be flawless; it’s supposed to be real.

Real love comes with edges and softness, with confusion and clarity. It’s messy. It’s loud. It’s growth in motion.

And still  it’s worth it.

Because the mind doesn’t know good from bad. It only reflects what we feed it.

That’s the job of the heart to discern, to feel, to choose love anyway.

So if you constantly feed your mind with fear, jealousy, doubt, and the idea that “love never lasts,” your relationship will become the reflection of that mindset.

But if you feed your mind with compassion, patience, forgiveness, and faith, you begin to rewire your thoughts, your reactions, and your patterns.

You stop fighting your partner and start fighting for the relationship.

You stop trying to win arguments and start learning how to communicate.

You stop expecting perfection and start appreciating growth.

Love isn’t something that just happens to us. It’s something we nurture  like soil that must be tended, watered, and cared for.

So ask yourself today 

What are you feeding your mind about us?

Are you planting trust or suspicion?

Are you feeding peace or pouring poison?

Are you focusing on the problems or on the progress?

Because your mind is the garden where your relationship grows.

Whatever you feed it, that’s what will bloom.

Choose carefully.

Choose love.

Choose growth.

Choose peace.

Because in the end, love isn’t about perfection it’s about awareness.

And awareness begins with what you feed your mind.